We should question what reaction, if any, a conflicted situation demands and whether reaction will further escalate the conflict. Families, friendships and employments have been broken or ended over unnecessary conflicts that spiraled out of control. The book also addresses situations that should be approached with humor or ones that are so ridiculous that after some thought, we know without question should be avoided. 99 Conflicts addresses several categories, from family to the workplace to places of worship, using real-life scenarios. But most of all, 99 Conflicts to Avoid makes you think.